Showing posts with label writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label writing. Show all posts

Monday, June 3, 2013

Interview with Elaine W. Miller, New York State author, with giveaway


Welcome, Elaine! We are so happy to have you here this week, and that you have agreed to share a bit about yourself.
Q: First of all—coffee, tea, soda, or vitamin water?
EM: Hot tea, iced tea, sweet tea, unsweetened tea, black tea, herbal tea. I love all tea! Something romantic about tea, don't you think? "Tea for two and two for tea. Me for you and you for me" is a sweet song I love to sing.

Q: When did you first know you were a writer?
EM: When my husband was preaching a sermon on the Parable of the Talents. In that parable, God is angry at the lazy servant who buries his talent. With no coaxing from me, God spoke to my heart, What good are your writings buried in a file cabinet if no one reads them? I laughed, but I knew I was to write a book. I was in my 50's and had no clue how to write a book, but here I am in my 60's with three published books.

Q: How does upstate NY play into your writing?
EM: This question made me laugh. Winter is my favorite season. It's my writing season because my world is blanketed in snow and quiet. I tuck myself into my office and write away! When the sun shines and the weather is warm, I run outside to play. Oh dear, I'd never finish a book if I lived in the South.

Q: If you could sit down and interview any person, fictitious or real from any time, who would that be and what is the first question you would ask?
EM: I'd sit down and enjoy a cup of tea with my grandmother. She was the first (and the only) person to sit me on her lap and read the Bible to me. After her death I found one page of a journal written in her own handwriting. In it, she prayed for her five children to believe in Jesus Christ. Her journal inspired me to write so my great grandchildren would know of my faith one day when I'm gone. I'd ask her how and when she believed in Jesus Christ as her Savior. Then I'd bask in her love and soak in all her wisdom.

Q: Who have been your mentors, and how did they help you most?
EM: I didn't believe in Christ until I was 32. Immediately, I joined a Bible study and have participated in Bible studies for most of my life. Meeting weekly with those women mentored me spiritually. They taught me through their lives and studying the Word what living a Christ-life looks like.
I've read every book written by Hannah Whitall Smith and Linda Dillow. Those dear authors mentored me spiritually as well.
As a writer, I have always been in a monthly writer's group. Love these women who read my work with new eyes and make my words shine.

Q: What do you hope your readers will take away from your books?
EM: Hope. We live in a world that lacks hope. We give up too soon on people and on circumstances and on marriages. I pray my readers' take away is seeing Jesus Christ as the hope they search for and desperately need.

Q: Do you have a question you would like our blog readers to answer?
EM: Who was the most inspirational person in your life? I'd love to read your story. Please share.

I'd love to do a book give away for the readers. The winner can choose one of my three books, We All Married Idiots: Three Things You Will Never Change About Your Marriage and Ten Things You Can, Splashes of Serenity: Bathtime Reflections for Drained Moms, or Splashes of Serenity: Bathtime Reflections for Drained Wives. If you leave a comment to enter, be sure to tell us if you are following any of Elaine's social media or have shared this on fb, twitter, or Google+ for extra entries. Possibility of up to eight entries. ENDS FRIDAY 8PM
KM: Thank you so much, Elaine, for being with us this week. I wish you every blessing as you write for His glory!


Elaine W. Miller is a popular author and speaker known for sharing biblical insights with warmth, enthusiasm, and humor. A member of the Advanced Writers and Speakers Association, she has been encouraging audiences for over 25 years. Elaine and her husband, an ordained minister, have been married 41 years. Together they have led many marriage retreats and counseled numerous hurting couples. Residing in upstate New York, Elaine and Dan enjoy a beautiful and sometimes idiotic life together. Besides her newest release We All Married Idiots, Elaine is the author of two additional books, Splashes of Serenity: Bathtime Reflections for Drained Moms and Splashes of Serenity: Bathtime Reflections for Drained Wives. For more information, please see her website, www.SplashesofSerenity.com or connect with her at Elaine's personal facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/elaine.w.miller?ref=tn_tnmn,Elaine's author facebook page:https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Elaine-W-Miller/202625069765960,Elaine's We All Married Idiots Facebook page gives daily marriage encouragements:https://www.facebook.com/#!/WeAllMarriedIdiots
Elaine's twitter: https://twitter.com/ElaineWMiller



Saturday, February 5, 2011

Writing Sabattical


November brought a big silent pause to my life. Even more than the busyness of Christmas preparation, and the need to find a job outside the home for the first time in a decade, I found that rejections and disappointments had sapped my desire to write. I was ready to call it quits.
My devoted friends and critique partners all encouraged me, but there was no returning in my mind. I said goodbye to a few writing groups, including an invaluable critique group full of very talented and dear folks. I would have left the rest, too, except I found my time consumed to the point of being unable to go online to do so. I grieved the loss of more years than I could count writing. I wondered what had it all been for?
I thrust myself into my retail job, working 38 hour weeks and desperately trying to keep up on my kids' homework and my housework, all the while dying to my dearest dreams and deepest desires. It was over, and I couldn't figure out why. Had God told me I was done, or had fatigue?
Then January came after the Christmas rush and my hours slackened off at work. I could breathe again. I dreamed a new story and woke to write it down in detail. I wanted to write, and the grief was gone.
My friends were right. God hadn't given me a moratorium, He had given me a sabbatical. And my head is clear enough again to love weaving words and story once again.
Thank you, John, Debbie Lynne, Leann, Suzie H, Suzanne C, Scribes 213, Barb, Tina P, crazy-hair Diane, MaryAlice, Nancy, Payton, Matt, Tracy, James, Gordon, Grace, Linore, Melanie, Laurie Alice, and my countless friends in this crazy writing world. You have all blessed and touched my life with your courage and tenacity.

Some words to ponder by a great Christian music artist, Jason Upton

No Sacrifice

To you I give my life, not just the parts I want to
To you I sacrifice these dreams that I hold on to

Your thoughts are higher than mine
Your words are deeper than mine
Your love is stronger than mine
This is no sacrifice
Here's my life

To you I give the gifts
Your love has given me
How can I hoard the treasures that you've designed for free?

Because
Your thoughts are higher than mine
Your words are deeper than mine
Your love is staronger than mine
This is no sacrifice
Here's my life

To you I give my future
As long as it may last
To you I give my present
To you I give my past

Because
Your thoughts are higher than mine
Your words are deeper than mine
Your love is stronger than mine
Your thoughts are higher than mine
Your words are deeper than mine
Your love is stronger than mine
This is no sacrifice
Here's my life